Sharing Grief, Sharing Laughter - The Heart of the Teapot Group

The Teapot Group meets once a month at Beaumond House, and while I often describe it as a support group for those who have been bereaved, a chance to gather over tea and cake, after attending for the first time, I can say it is so much more than that.

The room quickly filled with people delighted to see one another, conversations sparked and the room filled with chatter and laughter. Yes, there was tea and cake, that part I had right, but what struck me most was the sense of companionship that wrapped around the room like a comforting blanket.

The group offers a safe space for people who have all experienced loss. Many told me it is one of the few places where they don’t have to put on a brave face or explain how they’re feeling. Here, there is no judgment, no ‘right’ or ‘wrong’ way to grieve, just the reassurance that their way is enough.

For many, stepping back into the world alone feels daunting. The Teapot Group provides not only support but also understanding, helping people to take that first step forward.

When caring for someone at the end of life, there are often many people around; but once the goodbyes have been said, the silence can feel overwhelming.

Several people shared how lost and alone they felt until they found this group.Some members have built lasting friendships, others simply cherish the chance to sit with tea and cake in the company of people who understand.

They gently encourage each other to try new things, but there is equal acceptance for

those who are not ready.

Some are even going on holiday together – their first without their loved one, but, as they were quick to point out, not alone.

Several members of the group now volunteer in the Beaumond House charity shops and spoke with joy about how much they enjoy it, encouraging others in the group to join them.

Most had come to the Teapot Group through Beaumond House’s care or by word of mouth, and many admitted they hadn’t realised just how many services were available.

What I will carry away from my first Teapot Group is not only the tea and cake, but the warmth, care, and support that filled the room – along with the happy chatter that made it impossible not to smile. And I know this will not be my last visit.

Bobbie Morton, Healthcare Assistant

The Beaumond House Teapot Group is held on the first Tuesday of every month. Please feel free to drop in any time between 2.30pm - 4.30pm.